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Most sex educators would agree that knowing our own sexual desires is an important part of sexual health. Simply having a desire or a fantasy is not the same thing as wanting to act that fantasy out in real life. For many people it can be perfectly healthy and safe to explore even extreme desires [...]

Some of us talk to ourselves all the time. But how many of us talk dirty to ourselves? I'm not talking about the critical self-talk, where we put down how we look or tell ourselves that we'll never accomplish what we want. I'm talking about the good dirty talk, the talk that gets us hot [...]

We tend to think of voyeurism as being the act of watching someone else. And for many it is. But the foundation of voyeurism is about watching or more broadly attending to something, and the ways that watching or attending is itself arousing.
This is something you can explore on your own, through masturbation. Take a [...]

Sex toys can be a wonderful addition to your masturbation repertoire and for some people sex toys are the first and only way masturbation works for them. Here are a few reasons why sex toys and masturbation go so well together:

Sex toys provide a kind of strong and consistent stimulation that no human can, so a sex [...]

What defines advanced masturbation, as opposed to beginner masturbation? Because masturbation is all about pleasing yourself, when it comes to evaluating what makes for great masturbation technique you are both the judge and jury.
But hundreds of years of masturbation myths have left many at a loss for ways to spice up their masturbation routine. If you've already [...]