Sex, kink, BDSM, non-monogamy and more! In the Sinful Thrills Sex Blog we try to share anything and everything we know and read that promotes the end goal of having better sex. We are passionate for sex positivity, sex education, consensual and joyful kink, shiny sex toys, writen erotica, occasional Fifty Shades bashing, and other adjacent topics.
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POV: You’re reminiscing about your first few dates with your long-term partner. You know, the time when you used to bonk like bunnies? Back then, it was physically impossible to keep your hands off each other, but now the idea of engaging in spontaneous lovemaking with your S.O. sounds, well, meh. Continue reading
A flirty text or a string of naughty emojis is always a great way to spice things up. Whether you’ve been with your partner for a decade or two months, sexting is hot as hell and if you master the skill, you may just end up learning all about your partner's fantasies, likes and, most importantly, dislikes. Continue reading
An orgasm. Little death. Big O. No matter what you call it, the climax one may experience at the height of sexual arousal, plays a major role in our idea of good sex. Much has been written about fine-tuning them, including how to reach orgasm faster and how to increase their intensity. There are even different types. Despite all this attention, one thing we don’t talk much about is what orgasms feel like with a vulva.
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Securing an early check-in for Room 200 at a Quality Inn on a nondescript highway at noon was like leading a high-level trade negotiation. It took one reservation clerk and two supervisors to sign off on the only time we had that week to grab an hour of pleasure. Blame it on my raging libido and a scheduling crunch. Motel sex or nothing? Nothing is not the correct answer. Continue reading
If you're looking for a sex position that gives the receiving partner the power and the penetrating partner an amazing view, look no further than reverse cowgirl. This variation of the tried-and-true cowgirl position is a fun way to switch things up and provide some solid G-spot stimulation. Continue reading
One thing I literally couldn’t care less about is the porn search history of a guy I’m dating and/or otherwise having sex with. It’s not that I “don’t want to know” in any kind of sex-shamey sense. If that’s something you want to share with me, by all means, give me the guided tour! But it is my personal opinion (which also happens to be the correct one, FYI) that we, as individuals, are entitled to our own private sex lives with ourselves, regardless of relationship status. (Yes, this means that watching porn isn’t “cheating.” Insincerest of apologies to those who may think otherwise.) As far as I’m concerned, your sex life with yourself is your business, and whatever erotic stimuli may or may not be part of that life has nothing to do with me. Continue reading
For centuries, men have bemoaned the scourge of blue balls—but is it actually a thing? The answer is complicated.
Sex shouldn’t hurt. Yet three in four women report experiencing pain during intercourse at some point in their lives, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). For some, this pain is temporary — the result of inflammation or a short-lived infection. For others, like the 11 percent of American women living with endometriosis, the pain can be more persistent. Thankfully, some sex positions can help mitigate the pain that women with endometriosis often experience during and after intercourse. Continue reading
I am a 26-year-old woman, and for most of my adolescent and adult life I have only been able to reach orgasm when watching porn. I started watching porn when I was about 15. I’ve always felt stimulated from the visuals of sex and nudity, so naturally I felt completely bewitched by porn, and I shaped my own sexual experiences/behavior around what I watched. Continue reading
