If a woman's anatomy were Disney World (not to make Disney kinky or anything...), her clitoris would be the Magic Kingdom—the main event where all the fun and fireworks happen. And her G-spot, a little hot-spot deeper inside her, ahem, "park," would be Epcot: definitely worth a visit, but slightly less exciting on its own.
Why? The G-spot orgasm is, sad to say, less reliable than the clitoral type—but it's quite magical if you're able to get there (or better yet, experience both at once, via a blended orgasm).
Quick anatomy lesson: Your G-spot is actually part of the whole structure of your clitoris, which extends three to five inches inside you along the vaginal canal. (Get your full Female Anatomy 101 here.)
While everyone's G-spot is in a different, um, spot (sorry to be complicated), it's usually located about two to three inches inside your vagina along the front wall, says Sari Cooper, certified sex therapist and director of the Center for Love and Sex in New York City. (Since blood flow to the area causes it to swell, the more aroused you are, the easier it is to find.)
""Not every woman will have a G-spot orgasm, and that's totally normal," says Cooper. But if you're able to have one, you'll feel a rush that's different from the massage-induced clitoral climax.
Of course, you won't know until you try—and these 10 expert-approved sex positions to stimulate your G-spot are the primo way to do so. Worst case scenario, you end up with a night of super-steamy sex. Not a bad consolation prize, if you ask me...
1) Flat Doggy Style
Doggy style is super hot. To improve the chances of giving your partner an orgasm, have her lie flat on her stomach. This gives you even deeper penetration, allowing the head of your penis to more easily curve toward the inside of her vagina. To amplify the position further, have her use her favourite wand vibrator for a double ride. Opt for something larger underneath her for a double ride. Shell get the clitoral stimulation she needs, as well as intense internal pleasure. You can add a pillow under her hips if she has any lower back pain.
2) Sit to Stand
Have your partner lie at the edge of the bed with her butt as close to the end as possible. Stand next to the bed and enter her. You can either put her legs around your waist or over your shoulders, whichever is more comfortable. In this position, you'll be able to thrust deeply while also stimulating her clitoris. This is a great position to bring in a small vibrator like the Fin finger vibe ($79.95, buy it here ). You can also try putting a pillow underneath her to tilt her pelvis upward for optimum internal stimulation.
3) Oral at an Angle
The real issue with internal stimulation is that the G-spot is located at an upward angle, behind the pubic bone region. This makes reaching it with your penis difficult. To optimise her pleasure while simultaneously providing clitoral stimulation, try using a G-spot wand during oral sex. We love this stainless steel wand from NJoy, which is specifically designed to reach that nerve-rich area in her vagina. Combine this internal stimulation while drawing circles around her clitoris with your tongue. You will not be disappointed.
4) Open-Legged Spoon
This take on the classic spoon position gives you that Sunday morning feel of lazy sex while simultaneously giving her the opportunity to lie back and focus on her pleasure. Have your partner lie on her back. Lie under her on your side. Enter her at a perpendicular angle. She should be able to drape her knees over your side. Have her spread her knees so she has access to her clitoris. This is a fantastic position for both deep penetration and external clitoral stimulation. The combination will have her begging for more.
5) The Pearly Gates
While you're lying flat on your back, have your partner lie on top of you; her back should be on your chest. Then you can thrust up and into her. This position can really hit her G-spot because most penises when erect, aren't at a 90 degree angle to the body. Most tilt upwards. The position works with your penis natural curvature allowing you to penetrate deeper. From this position, its also easy for either you or your partner to stimulate her clitoris.
6) Girl of Fire
Girl on Fire is similar to classic cowgirl. However, instead of her leaning forward or remaining upright, have your partner lean back. She can place her hands on both sides of your body for support. This simple twist creates more opportunity for internal stimulation. While shes leaning back, you have two free hands, one of which should be playing with her clitoris.