72 Songs for the Best Sex Playlist Ever by Better Sex Blog

Music obviously enhances a lot of experiences (see: workouts, car rides, long walks, lake weekends, etc.). But the one thing music doesn’t get enough credit for is sex. Like, IMO, if you’re not listening to some bops every! time! you have sex, you’re doing it wrong.

Obviously with the exception of quickies and spontaneous sex, you need a banging playlist to have on repeat during your bone sessions. The reason: Not only does playing music give you a rhythm to follow, but it allows you to set the pace for what kind of vibe you’re into.

Want your partner to slow down? You can opt for slower tempos that tend to feel more passionate. Looking for kinkier, rougher sex? Then there are some songs that can certainly fit the mould for that too (peep #2 on this list).Bottom line: Regardless of what genre or tempo you and your partner decide on, music is a game changer and should absolutely be utilised the same way condoms, lube, and other sex toys are in the bedroom.
So don’t worry, we already did the hard part for you by curating a list of songs that are actually perfect for your sex sessions, depending on your mood. Pick and choose what to add to your own playlist and have some fun, my friend. Your orgasms deserve this.

1. "Often" — The Weeknd

FWIW: Pretty much any song by The Weeknd is going to have you feeling extra good when you're getting laid. This one just happens to be my fave, but feel free to shuffle.

2. "Do I Wanna Know?" and "Woman" mashup — Arctic Monkeys and Harry Styles

Yeah, seriously just trust me on this one. The mashup has been making its rounds on TikTok and it's just as sexy as you'd suspect.

3. "Formula" — Labrinth

This song made its debut on the HBO series Euphoria and, yeah, it's absolutely okay if Jacob Eldori popped into your head just now.

4. "Mount Everest" — Labrinth

... Another banger worth adding to your playlist from the Euphoria soundtrack.

5. “Lovers” — Anna of the North

You’ll remember this bop from the infamous Jacuzzi scene in To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before. You might not have Noah Centineo, but playing this tune is *almost* as good.

6. “SLOW DANCING IN THE DARK” — Joji

More like slow grindin’ in the dark, amirite.

7. "Hold" — Vera

The song literally starts with “I love the way you tie me down.” Need we say more?

8. "Ribs" — Lorde

Let one of Lorde's more velvety tracks will whisk you away.

9. "Eyes on Fire" — Blue Foundation

Yes, this song was in Twilight. Yes, it’s still relevant. And yes, it’s on firrreee.

10. "Cherry Wine" — Hozier

Pour a glass of something good and let Hozier serenade you.

11. "Invite me In" — Wild Ones

Like, allllll the way in. Ya feel me?

12. "Bags" — Clairo

Clairo is ‘lil lo-fi dream—her simple, husky vocals will have you vibin’ quick.

13. "Dress" — Taylor Swift

Let's hear it, why'd you buy that dress?

14. "Adore You" — Miley Cyrus

Let your lover know, okay?

15. "Waiting Game" — BANKS

You could be doing anything else, and if you play BANKS you will be mentally transported into your bedroom.

16. "Atmosphere" — Joy Division

Ever wonder what it’d be like to have sex in space? You are now.

17. "Lollipop" — Lil Wayne

This throwback needs no explanation.

18. "Hands to Myself" — Selena Gomez

For when you’re feeling really, really handsy.

19. "Paperbacks" — Arlo Parks

Break out a hit from this indie darling when the moment's right.

20. "Papi Pacify" — FKA Twigs

The video alone is enough to get you in the mood.

21. “Feelin’ Myself” — Beyoncé and Nicki Minaj

Perfect for the aforementioned solo play.

22. “I’m a Slave 4 U” — Britney Spears

Let Britney's sultry whisper-singing (and your bodies) do all the talking.

23. “I Want Your Sex” — George Michael

Sometimes being forward is the way to go!

24. “Milkshake” — Kelis

At last, you can listen to this song in your bedroom without your mum bursting through the door and turning it off!

25. “Closer” — Nine Inch Nails

"I want to f*ck you like an animal" is either not your vibe or EXTREMELY your vibe.

26. “Cola” — Lana Del Rey

If you're going to pick a song to enjoy cunnilingus to, one that starts with "My pussy tastes like Coca-Cola" is a strong contender.

27. “Lady Marmalade” — Christina Aguilera, Lil’Kim, Mya, Pink

The Patti LaBelle classic is obviously flawless, but this cover and burlesque-themed music video is iconic levels of hot. Pair this with lacy stockings of your own.

28. “Raspberry Beret” — Prince

You can't go wrong mixing Prince tracks with sex, but "Raspberry Beret" is particularly charming. "And if it was warm, she wouldn't wear much more" is so artfully thirsty.

29. “Moonage Daydream" — David Bowie

This trippy song isn't explicitly about sex, but the playful rhythm and lyrics like "Press your space face close to mine, love" evoke so much passion and excitement that it might as well be.

30. “Hot in Here” — Nelly

You probably belted this out at prom with your crush, disappointingly keeping all your clothes on. But now you get to follow the instructions of this song, so go you!

31. “Like a Virgin” — Madonna

A Madonna sex song that's a classic for a reason!

32. “Sexxx Dreams” — Lady Gaga

TBH, Gaga's best sex lyric ever was referring to a penis as a "disco stick" in "Love Game," but "Sexxx Dreams" is (duh) overall sexier.

33. "My Humps" — Black-Eyed Peas

This song is ridiculous. You need an LOL-level throwback in there, sex can't always be so serious!

34. “Need You Tonight” — INXS

Not to go there, but to also totally freak you out: Your parents def banged to this banger. And if it worked for them/probs led to your conception, it'll do the trick for you, too!

35. “Push It” — Salt-N-Pepa

You heard what they said. Push. It. Real. GOOD.

36. “No Diggity” — Blackstreet ft. Dr. Dre, Queen Pen

The BPM of this one = ideal peen movement rhythm.

37. “I’m on Fire” — Bruce Springstreen

A sex song that has the word "daddy" in it has to be on here!

38. “You Really Got Me” — The Kinks

Yeah, this song is used a lot in movie montages where the protagonist is stalking their crush or whatever, but it's also good for when you finally DO get with your crush, too.