masturbation

How To Masturbate for Men

Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for simple and fun tips on how to masturbate for men.
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How To Masturbate for Women

Because you get to do it by yourself, on your own terms, masturbation may be the best way to learn what turns you on. There are all sorts of ways that people raised as girls and women are set up to not enjoy sex. Most women are raised with little information about their genitals and almost all of us are raised with negative messages about pleasure and our bodies. Some women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, others enjoy vaginal penetration or g spot stimulation. Remember, there’s no wrong way to masturbate; everyone is different! Below you'll find some tips on how to masturbate for women.
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Jealous of My Girlfriend's Vibrator

I am having a really big problem with my girlfriend's vibrator. I'd like to say before I start that me and my girlfriend share a very intense love. With that intense love comes lots of other intense emotions. I just think that's important to say because of this horrible way I'm feeling about this problem.She is unable to have an orgasm without a vibrator. I have been supportive and understanding and helpful as much as I can. But her problem is now affecting me.

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Why Can I Only Orgasm with My Vibrator?

Question: Why Can I Only Orgasm with My Vibrator?

"Although I am able to have fantastic and, sometimes, multiple orgasms, using a vibrator, I have never been able to reach orgasm with my partner. We've been together 6 years, he is "the One" and we've always had amazing chemistry, and it is so disappointing for me, and, for him!"

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How To Use a Vibrator With Your Partner

It's not uncommon for people to be able to orgasm while using a vibrator but not have orgasms during sex with a partner. There are plenty of reasons for this, but whatever is going on, if you are in a good relationship you probably want to have orgasms, or at least experience a lot of pleasure, when you have sex with your partner, and your partner (hopefully) wants to be with you while you are feeling that pleasure. For many, the easiest and fastest way to achieve this is to use your vibrator with your partner. If you want to do this, but don't know where to start, here are some things to consider.

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